I Am a Mother of Two, I Wish I Knew…

Becoming a parent is a transformative journey filled with moments of joy, challenges, and profound learning experiences. It is not always pretty as how your favorite Insta Mammas portray!

Reflecting on my own journey as a mother of two, I've compiled a list of 10 things that I wish I had known before embarking on this remarkable adventure.

Whether you're a new parent preparing to welcome your first child or already navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood, these may offer you guidance and even a smile to know that you are not alone:

1. Sleep Deprivation is the Norm: From pregnancy insomnia to late-night feedings and early morning wake-up calls, expect sleep to become a precious commodity.

2. Parenting Styles May Differ: Your partner and you may have different approaches to parenting, and that's perfectly normal. Embrace your unique strengths and perspectives, and strive to find common ground while respecting each other's differences.

3. Every Child is Unique: Resist the urge to compare your child to others. Each child is a unique individual with their own strengths, challenges, and quirks. Celebrate their uniqueness and embrace the journey of discovering who they are.

4. Trial and Error is Inevitable: Parenting is an ongoing learning process filled with trial and error. What works for one child may not work for another, so be open to experimentation and adapt your approach as needed.

5. Self-Care is Essential: Parenthood can be all-consuming, but it's important to prioritize self-care. Make time for activities that nourish your mind, body, and soul, whether it's a bubble bath, a walk in nature, or simply a few moments of quiet reflection.

6. Seek Support When Needed: Don't be afraid to ask for help when you need it. Whether it's from family, friends, or professionals, seeking support is a sign of strength, not weakness.

7. Embrace Imperfection: Parenthood is messy, chaotic, and imperfect – and that's okay! Let go of unrealistic expectations and embrace the beautiful chaos of family life. Remember that you're doing the best you can, and that's more than enough.

8. Celebrate Milestones, Big and Small: Parenthood is filled with countless milestones, from first smiles to first steps and everything in between. Celebrate each achievement, no matter how small, and cherish the precious moments along the way.

9. Trust Your Instincts: You know your child better than anyone else. Trust your instincts and intuition, and don't be afraid to advocate for your child's needs.

10. Cherish the Moments: Time passes quickly, and children grow up faster than you can imagine. Cherish the precious moments spent together, from snuggles on the couch to bedtime stories and impromptu dance parties. These moments are fleeting but infinitely precious, so savor them whenever you can.

As you go on your own journey of parenthood, remember that you're not alone. Trust in your instincts, embrace the challenges and joys that come your way, and cherish the precious moments spent with your little ones.

Parenthood is a wild and wonderful adventure, and I wish you all the love, strength, and joy as you navigate this incredible journey together.